I’m Michelle Choairy—mentor, speaker, advocate and proud mom of a neurodivergent child with a rare genetic disorder.
My Story
My journey began with my firstborn son. At 29 weeks pregnant, I went in to get an Ultrasound and didn’t come out of the hospital until a month later.
My son was born 8 weeks prematurely and was a NICU baby for one month. From the beginning, he had delays. He couldn’t suck, swallow and breathe at the same time, so he had to drink my milk through a bottle. He was such a bad eater too!
As he grew, we could see that he wasn’t hitting his milestones. We went through the regional center when he was only 18 months old, getting an OT to help with feeding. He still couldn’t talk.
That was the beginning of our journey.
Through the years we received different diagnoses, but it wasn't until he was 8 years old that we finally figured out that he had TBR1 genetic disorder-there are only 190 children in the world with this diagnosis.
We went through countless doctors and lots of trial and error, but when he said his first word, more...what a moment for me!
He is now 10 years old and even though he still has tantrums, and is behind behaviorally, academically, and psychologically, the progress he made is nothing short of a miracle. My son is a child who went from not speaking at three and a half to a kid who makes friends wherever he goes. He even received the award for the “friendliest kid” at his school!
I am telling you this because I want you to know that I see you! I am you! And I know how to help you!
I’ve collaborated with organizations like March of Dimes, Apraxia Kids, and Special Olympics—raising awareness and funding for children with disabilities. But my real mission? It’s helping you. Through mentoring, resources, group programs, and THRIVE SIGNATURE concierge support, I help parents lead their families with strength, not stress.
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Empower every parent to speak up and be heard.
Guide families through IEPs, therapies, and care plans.
Turn overwhelm into clarity, one child at a time.
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